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M\u00e1te je tak\u00e9 kolem sebe? Nev\u00edte, jak s nimi jednat? Nev\u00edte, pro\u010d pr\u00e1v\u011b vy je m\u00e1te kolem sebe? Nev\u00edte, pro\u010d v\u00e1s tak dr\u00e1\u017ed\u00ed a pro\u010d v\u00e1s jejich jedn\u00e1n\u00ed roz\u010diluje?\tPoj\u010fme si \u0159\u00edct v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b, \u017ee \u017eivot n\u00e1s stav\u00ed p\u0159ed velkou \u0159\u00e1dku slo\u017eit\u00fdch a nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdch situac\u00ed. A\u0165 u\u017e v partnersk\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b mus\u00edte \u0159\u00edci n\u011bco, co nen\u00ed v\u00e1m ani partnerovi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 a nebo se potk\u00e1te v pr\u00e1ci se situac\u00ed, kdy v\u00e1\u0161 kolega nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1 komunikaci s klienty. Jsou to v podstat\u011b nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 situace.\tCo mysl\u00edme alibistou?D\u00e1me rovnou p\u0159\u00edklad. V\u00e1\u0161 kolega m\u00e1 klienta, kter\u00fd je pom\u011brn\u011b hodn\u011b agresivn\u00ed a nem\u00e1 r\u00e1d \u0161patn\u00e9 zpr\u00e1vy. Nikdo s n\u00edm nechce jednat, a tak se v\u017edy sna\u017e\u00edte tohoto klienta nasm\u011brovat ke stejn\u00e9 osob\u011b, kter\u00e1 je ochotn\u00e1 s n\u00edm jednat. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt nov\u00e1\u010dek, kter\u00fd nem\u00e1 tu\u0161en\u00ed, do \u010deho jde. Nap\u0159\u00edklad. A tento v\u00e1\u0161 kolega st\u00e1le dokola tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee je v\u0161echno v po\u0159\u00e1dku, \u017ee si s klientem um\u00ed poradit, a \u017ee nen\u00ed pot\u0159eba \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdch dal\u0161\u00edch informac\u00ed, proto\u017ee klient je s doty\u010dn\u00fdm zcela spokojen\u00fd a v\u0161echny informace m\u00e1. Jen\u017ee ub\u011bhne p\u00e1r dn\u00ed a najednou si v\u00e1s vol\u00e1 na kobere\u010dek v\u00e1\u0161 \u0161\u00e9f, proto\u017ee si na v\u00e1s st\u011b\u017euje klient, kter\u00e9ho jste sv\u011b\u0159ili pr\u00e1v\u011b slu\u017eebn\u011b mlad\u0161\u00edmu kolegovi.Kdy\u017e pak dojde na konfrontaci, klient v podstat\u011b hul\u00e1k\u00e1 na v\u00e1s, \u017ee jste mu neposkytl spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 informace, a \u017ee jste se m\u011bl nov\u00e1\u010dkovi v\u00edce v\u011bnovat, proto\u017ee on nemohl p\u0159ece n\u011bkter\u00e9 informace v\u011bd\u011bt.O\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1te tedy, p\u0159i v\u0161\u00ed \u00fact\u011b, \u017ee kolega nov\u00e1\u010dek se k tomu postav\u00ed \u010delem a p\u0159izn\u00e1, \u017ee m\u011bl pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1 v\u0161echno pod kontrolou, ale \u017ee s\u00edly p\u0159ecenil. Opak je v\u0161ak pravdou. Nov\u00e1\u010dek se postav\u00ed \u010delem jinam a k v\u00e1m z\u00e1dy a \u0159ekne, \u017ee je to va\u0161e chyba, \u017ee jste mu neporadil, a \u017ee ho ani ve snu nenapadlo, \u017ee by se m\u011bl na n\u011bco pt\u00e1t. A je z obliga.A je to. Klient si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee jste se zbl\u00e1znili vy, \u0161\u00e9f m\u00e1 chu\u0165 v\u00e1s vyhodit a vy se jen div\u00edte, jak si z v\u00e1s alibista ud\u011blal p\u011bkn\u00fd den. Je\u0161t\u011b k tomu uron\u00ed slzu, aby bylo vid\u011bt, \u017ee jeho \u00famysly byly opravdov\u00e9, odp\u0159is\u00e1hne, \u017ee m\u00e1 sv\u011bdom\u00ed \u010dist\u00e9, \u017ee \u0159ekl jenom to, co mu bylo \u0159e\u010deno.\tPro\u010d to d\u011bl\u00e1?Kdy\u017e se zamysl\u00edte nad t\u00edm, pro\u010d by toto d\u011blal, tak se v\u011bt\u0161inou jedn\u00e1 o \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd nejen, \u017ee nezn\u00e1 svoji hodnotu, ale m\u00e1 \u010dasto i probl\u00e9my ve vztaz\u00edch v rodin\u011b a i v partnersk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch. \u010casto b\u00fdv\u00e1 frustrov\u00e1n emocion\u00e1ln\u011b a tak\u00e9 fyzicky. Neradi to p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1me, ale ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee trp\u011bt t\u00edm, \u017ee nem\u00e1 dlouho sex, chyb\u00ed mu napln\u011bn\u00ed jeho osobn\u00edch tu\u017eeb. Na\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed kles\u00e1, c\u00edt\u00edme se m\u00e9n\u011bcenn\u00ed a tak se uchylujeme k tomu, \u017ee se sna\u017e\u00edme shodit ostatn\u00ed a sami sebe p\u0159ed ostatn\u00edmi vykreslovat jen v t\u011bch nejlep\u0161\u00edch barv\u00e1ch. 4.2\/5 - (6 votes) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Frustrace je hrozn\u00e1 v\u011bc!","item":"https:\/\/www.starporc.cz\/frustrace-je-hrozna-vec\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]